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两本书一部纪录片，每次谈到哥哥自杀时都是重复自己对此的不解。写作可能是他潜意识的Expressive therapy，之后战地、灾区、无数次的面对死亡，却自始至终都无法越过自己哥哥的死亡。政治研究因果，新闻发掘真相，而在这件事上他只得承认 "you just have to be able to live in a world without why"。 |
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“it’s only once you accept that life is a tragedy that you can start to live. ”看过Gloria的人生，是生活本身就有一种沉重与悲伤，有些moment非常touching,并不是因为煽情，而是生命如此的不定但有些事情即使隔得再远还是让人很悲伤 |
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无法界定生活给于我们的，什么是馈赠，什么是惩罚，只是在这条路上，走着，疑惑着，努力和往事和解，最终将问题带到另一个世界。 |
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没想到会如此动人,看了transparent后开始想epigenetics,好像真是这样,不管有意无意，我们都会继承祖辈的issues~依旧是记忆的主题,人不断改写过去,从而与自己和解～去打棒球的路上看到the wheeler school和片子里一样，一查原来就是这所，我终究并不讨厌现在生活的这个地方，毕竟依然能看到历史的痕迹 |
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Anderson Cooper had black hair! Lol of course he did...no one was born with silver hair. Every time I read or watch about Gloria Vanderbilt, it just saddens me. She's in a great shape for a 90 something years old, considering how much she went through. Carter was so cute. |
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Crazy story of Gloria Vanderbilt. |
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四星半。传奇的一生。"A fatherless girl thinks all things possible, but nothing safe." |
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Loss and tragedy are common themes of life. Gloria's life can be made into a documentary because she is rich and beautiful. |
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cooper麻麻的一生真是传奇又悲伤。。。 |
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"A fatherless girl thinks all things possible, but nothing safe." |
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202401：It's only once that you accept life that is a tragedy, that you can start to live. (Gloria Vanderbilt）
Some people are sucked under by tragedy and loss and it destroys them. And some people it propels them forward. (Andersen Cooper)
I had a hard heart of a child from then on that I could survive things. And I did.(Gloria Vanderbilt） |
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原来惠特妮美术馆是Anderson的姑姥姥创办的。范德比尔家的这对姑侄虽然才华有限，但所继承的不少遗产还是都流向了美国当代艺术事业的。Cooper比较尴尬，生父是他妈妈的第四段婚姻，片子播了一个多小时他爸爸才出现… |
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传奇。真是坚强的活过了那么多世纪，活了好几个人生。结了四次婚，跟第二任、第四任丈夫各生了两个儿子。四个儿子，一直期待有个女儿。最大的儿子从二十几岁就断了联系，一直断了30多年，不知道她死之前是否有联络。第三个儿子也是二十多岁，以更加决绝的方式，当着她的面跳楼自杀，我觉得这应该是命运的诅咒。第二个儿子，那个指挥家的孩子，比Anderson还要帅。 |
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who had a hard heart of a child |
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@2016-08-01 07:58:26 |
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“the poor little rich girl” |
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太伤感了看的 the poor little rich girl |
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情绪饱满，让人潸然泪下！Gloria还真是poor little rich kid啊！爸爸早逝，姑妈奶奶和她妈妈争抚养权，保姆被迫离开，却跟姑妈不亲姑妈也走得早，好不容易跟妈妈关系缓和妈妈60岁就没了，也没陪在保姆身边，深爱的老公也病逝了！大学刚毕业的儿子居然在她面前跳楼自杀！四个儿子，一个对她避而不见，一个自杀！还好小儿子陪在她身边呢！深爱她的人她深爱的人都先她而去！四次婚姻一个知名男友，虽然感觉她结婚有些草率，但是知道自己要什么，担心自己被抛弃，就主动离婚，将伤害减轻到最小！芭芭拉霍顿要是能学学她，估计下场也不会那么惨呢！还创立了个人牛仔品牌，也算是个事业型女性了！当时她抚养权大战涉及到的是330万美金啊！虽历经世事，言谈举止中她还是那么童真可爱啊！最后，母子二人给爸爸儿子扫墓，令人类目 |
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动人。 |
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Call her not wicked, that word’s touch consumes her like a curse, but love her not too much, too much, for that is even worse. Oh she was neither good nor bad, but innocent and wild. Enshrine her and she dies, who had a hard heart of a child. |
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It‘s only once you accept that life is a tragedy that you start to live. |
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very touching.....life enriches only the strong ones |
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个人感受，总觉得这种怼脸拍的忧伤，有表演嫌疑。更有共鸣的是片尾，AC说的，我们就在一个没有答案的世界生活着。 |
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When you accept that life is a tragedy, you kind start to live.
A rock heart help me get through all these. |
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说实在的，这位名媛的画画水平好糟啊！ |
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two broken souls |
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3.5星吧。中规中矩 |
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restlessness是如此具象化的体现在gloria身上，insecurity对于人一生的影响，对于人primal drive的定义作用。
这么多段婚姻/romantic relationship中可以看出，父母真的会把自己的情感模式带给下一代。wyatt可以说带来了所有的warmth |
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命运的轮回，在母亲和儿子身上体现殆尽。 |
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无法形容，这是一个女人的战争。She lived a remarkable life and overcame a lot. What an extraordinary life. What an extraordinary woman. |
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百感交集 |
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Every kid deserves a letter from their beloved father saying how much he is proud of them. I quote, " a fatherless girl feels anything possible and nothing safe". And, I think I am a loner too. |
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the most wanted thing in Gloria's life is "simple", but all her life was mean to be not simple. |
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Who had the hard heart of a child. |
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kept all those things, "give me a sense of knowing who I was then who I became who I am now, give me a sense of time and a sense of one's own history so to speak", I should learn to and get comfortable/easy to keep those things important to me from time to time
she's still youthful and optimistic at the age of 92 from her son's eye, what a legend |
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很惭愧的说，这是我第一次看的没有发困的纪录片 |
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Vanderbilit家族后代，小时候命途多舛，父亲早逝，随母亲漂泊海外，抚养权被姑姑争夺，年幼一直照顾自己的保姆被送走。四段婚姻，四个小孩中一个断绝联系，一个自杀。演戏、时尚、艺术和写作均有涉猎，非常精彩的人生。竟然与美国商业大亨和飞行先驱Howard Hughes也有交往过。 |
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非常悲伤，忍不住落泪！poor little rich girl的一生。 |
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It’s real |
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A hard heart of a child is the key to survive anything |
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男神的妈 I wanted a father then I married one. |
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她一直是那个孤单的小女孩 （貌似AC也是在她91岁俩人关系才亲近了些）从小就没有父母在身边 没人教会她什么是爱 怎么去爱 在哪里都是outsider 好在她一直在摸索 还有多多和姑姑的爱 无论是事业还是家庭 她和AC一样（AC外表像父亲但内在更像Vanderbilt）可以化悲痛为力量 很多人做不到比如Carter和大儿子 幸运的是她也收获了幸福 ——认清了生活的真相后 依然热爱生活的人最美 "Il n'ya qu'un héroïsme au monde：c'est de voir le monde tel qu'il est et de l'aimer." |
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一生已经度过，该说的话也已说完。 |
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so touching so sensitive |
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You gotta learn to live in a world where there is no whys. |
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Anderson is the only son she is ever close to, I believe. Fascianating life. Great character. |
